What's Right or Wrong? Is there a way of knowing? Here are 3 important and very helpful words: Harm, Flourishing, Priority. So does this harm, is it harmful? Does this allow flourishing? And what is is priority? Note: to say another must not say something because this offends someone else HARMS that person, diminishes FLOURISHING. In other words, the PRIORITIES are: not to harm, and to flourish.