As we mature, our identity builds atop the preexisting foundation laid down by those who physically brought us to our feet. For some, the trauma incurred by insufficient care leaves their adult self battling resentfulness, mistrust, or the incompetence of loving others on an unconditional basis due to that very lack of connection received when love serves to prime the being for their lifetime. That plank of validation is not set by the extent of a parental figure’s love for their child, but the degree to which a child felt accepted, needed, respected, and valued during the time when their worth was being configured by the passage of love through them.
As social beings, we discover over the course of our lives that we are designed to find pleasure in the process of bonding with others, and interaction plays a much greater role in our evolution than the one-sided satisfaction of our needs. Connections teach us about the constant interplay of energy that causes us to gravitate towards those who can exchange it more equally and less abusively than those who may not know how to.
Through every person we encounter, we contact a new world that has been touched by so many others, yet still has a small child that longs for nurturing within it.
When we begin to see the inner child hidden in the years behind every grown man and woman, we can understand the true core of connection- loving understanding. Offering it to ourselves nourishes the most important connection of all that will always share its abundant supply of love with others.
Once we transcend the need to please others and give as a way of conditionally validating our goodness, we can begin nurturing our true selves and serve the collective with its inherent goodness.
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Gabi Kovalenko is a transformational thought leader who teaches a pro-consciousness approach to personal development and mindful living. Gabi integrates principles of noetic science and positive psychology into her philosophy to shed light on the nexus of science and spirituality which reveals the power of consciousness and potentiality within all of life. Her approach revitalizes spiritual concepts by offering a refreshing take on the self-evident truth of universal order that connects people of all ages to their innate wisdom and purpose.
Trained as a holistic healthcare practitioner, she is currently pursuing a Ph.D. in natural medicine and possesses a Bachelor's in Business Administration. Gabi's passion lies in inspiring a fresh awareness of life by disarming limiting beliefs with self-awareness and igniting a paradigm shift towards joy, abundance, love, passion, and freedom to help an individual construct the inner world of their choosing and, in doing so, contribute to the formation of a better one for us all.
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